Fish on Friday as well as Christmas is one of the things that can conjure up images of grandma, her house, neighborhood and Terre Haute. Grandma was a little superstitious (put a coin on a window sill face up, and it will call other money to you) and seriously religious. The latter may also have been part “living in this society.”
Time at grandma’s house was maybe the three months of summer a few years. Holiday time, like Christmas, although annual, was only an overnight stay, but the summer visits amounted to living in Terre Haute, her way. If grandpa wasn’t going to church, that was his business, but she was going to get there and take the kid, too.
The pot-like black hat went on her head covering her waist-length hair that was pinned in a bun, and there was a trek two blocks down the street and across the railroad tracks to the bus stop. Church was too far away to walk there. That’s about all that’s recalled of it, except one time there was a lesson in how to live, in her way.
One time there was no just quietly sitting in church next to grandma. Near the “proper” time, she bent over, handed over a nickel (then it would buy a candy bar that now costs a dollar) whispering in firm command to put the nickel in the collection basket. Of course, it was. The power in that command’s still felt after over 75 years.
Merry Christmas everyone. 🙂
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